Text Coaching

Text Coaching

Dr. Marlowe is the first coach to provide real-time training on text game, as you interact with women. He also reviews your prior text exchanges to point out your strengths and weaknesses.

Here is an example of text coaching with a student named Robert.

When I started working with Robert, he had been trying to get this girl out for a few weeks. The problem was, I kept seeing the same pattern:

Open -> Invite out -> Her excuse why she can't meet up

Robert needed to work in text game before the invite, and that's where I stepped in. Also, since he has a bit of trouble with English, his texts were often hard to understand, so he needed clarity with his meaning, structure and grammar.

I had Robert reopen with a comment on a popular news story from that morning, about a whale that had jumped out of the water and smashed into a boat. Rather than comment on the story, I made the text be about it happening to him.

Note that anything Roger is saying below is actually what I coached him to say, verbatim.

R = Ryan
D = Dr. Marlowe
H = Her

x indicates an aside between the two of us, not intended to be sent to the girl.

July 22

R: Hey girl! That whale f*cked up my yacht but I'm doing ok. Whew close call...

H: Haha. That picture is pretty amazing though

R: Yea I'd eat that fish if he ever tried that with me lol

H: Lol. Not sure if eating whale is legal

R: Ha! I AM the law

H: Lol I'll keep that in mind for if I ever get in trouble with the law

R: Hmm do u get in trouble often?? I knew it! ;)

H: Lol. What makes you think I get into trouble?

R: That mischievous look in ur eyes

H: I have a mischievous look??

R: Yup. How was work?

D: x what's this girl do for work btw?

R: x don't remember

H: It was really good. I showed them Forrest Gump in the afternoon and they loved it.

D: x this is her getting invested. I'd say…

R: Awww that is sweet :) remind me…u work at a senior center?

H: Lol. Close enough its a nursing home. Do you work?

D: x I'm good. What do u do?

R: x I work as a customer service director at a internet company

D: Wow ur cute AND a good girl. Hmmm what's the catch??

D: Yea I do web stuff

D: x send both one after the other

R: x web stuff first?

D: x no. don't jump thru hoops so fast. Make it an afterthought

H: Lol the catch is that I have a curfew lol. What kind of web stuff?

R: Haha curfews are meant to be broken ;) I'm a customer service director. Sexxxy, huh

H: Lol, that's the thing I broke my curfew way to many times. A customer service director huh? Sounds interesting

D: x now her responses are longer. She's still not ready to invite since she's giving u shit about curfew

R: OMG it's a laugh a minute!! Well btr let u get to sleep or you'll get in trouble ;)

July 26

R: x how do we reopen her again today?

D: x Suggest to me 3 things of relevance

R: x Not sure. Maybe, “go-karts for a Sunday: awesome.” Or its not going to the trick for BT?

D: x Let's say you want to create intrigue (your 'microgoal'). You plan out a story about what happened sunday. You went to the go kart place, some kid kept ramming your car, you got whiplash, you're gonna sue him. Whatever. So then you start at the end and work backwards...

U: I'm gonna sue that little punk!
Her: Huh???
U: That kid at the go kart place yday. Little brat...
Her: What happened?
U: We were having a nice day riding go karts and this boy wouldn't stop ramming our car!! I think I have whiplash :(((
Her: Hahaha!
U: Ugh. How was ur weekend pumpkin?

R: I'm gonna sue that little punk!

H: What punk?

R: That kid at the go kart place yday. Little brat…

H: Lol what happened?

R: We were having a nice day riding go karts and this boy wouldn't stop ramming our car!! I think I have whiplash :(((

H: Lol where in coney island?

R: Yes, How was your weekend pumpkin?

H: It was good. Went to the beach on Saturday… bad idea cause it was soo hot. I think I burned the soles of my feet with the sand

R: Awww poor girl! U need someone to rub ointment on them. Sadly I don't know anybody :)

H: Lol its ok my feet are better anyway. How was your weekend?

R: Aside from major head trauma? Spectacula like Dracula

H: Lol that's good.

R: I bet u drive like that kid :p

(Dead air)

July 27

H: Lol not at all!! Well then again I'm not sure how I got my license

R: x whats next?

D: x She's close enough to a 4 that I'd go for the implicit invite. Very non-needy and vague. We'll see if she bites.

R: Haha stop being so cute woman! There's only so much I can take. We really should hang out

H: Lol. That would be cool.

R: What's ur schedule like this week?

H: Well this week I can't my grandma is staying with my family I could do next week

D: Aww say hi to grandma for me :) next wk sounds good

H: Do you have Facebook?

R: Facebook?? I only do myspace. Jk. Robert W. Wait, ur not some fb stalker are u?!

H: Lmao. Not at all I was curious I'm going to add you if you don't mind

R: Sure why not ;)

At this point, she adds him. I have him wait til Sunday before setting up plans for the next week.